Its a bit long but please help? appreciated?

Alas, I contend that he is indeed right BUT there are still women out there who wholly love and appreciate men like you. You just have to expend greater effort to find these women. Just be yourself, Mat- at the end of the day, we are all desirous of having someone love us for who we are NOT who we feign to be. And, quit being so hard on yourself! :)